Recently found this from Web. Very descriptive!
曖昧是
曖昧是，比好朋友再親一點，但比情人遠一點。
曖昧是，有一點兒兄妹的的情誼，但卻不敢以兄妹相稱。大家都暗暗的明白，這段關係不可能簡單如兩兄妹。
曖昧是，你會常常在ICQ、MSN等他在線。你會設定他一在線時，系統會有online alert，你也會把他的名字floating on。而MSN就會看著他的照片，每轉相就cap出來儲存。每當見他幾天沒有在線，你就會有些擔心。
曖昧是，你會不時去他的info、日記看看有沒有更新；而且你會留意字裡行間，他對你有沒有甚麼暗示。
曖昧是，你和他會有說不盡的話題，經常細聲講大聲笑。
曖昧是明知他有伴侶還願待在他的身旁偷偷地看著一舉一動。
曖昧是會在紙上不經覺地畫他的肖像，寫他的名字。
曖昧是你和他都會替對方的一切加上意見，亦會言聽計從。例如衣著打扮、網頁外觀…
曖昧是有感覺，然而，這種感覺不足以叫你們切切實實的發展一段正式的關係。
曖昧是是明白人生有太多的無奈，現實有太多的限制。你知道沒有可能，但又捨不得放手。
曖昧是有進一步的衝動，卻沒有進一步的勇氣。
曖昧是，他不是你的情人，但似乎他比你的情人更關心你和了解你，一起時還會更開心。
曖昧是思想、行為非常接近。
曖昧是將一起或是偷偷拍下的照片儲存在極為保密的地方。曖昧是當你無名火起時，他的一句話就能將火撲滅。
曖昧是跟異性行街看見他時會四處躲避、心跳加速、手心冒汗、面紅耳熱。
曖昧是什麼也不能輸給他，讓他永遠記住你的存在。
曖昧是他恨的人你也會恨，他喜歡的人你更恨。
曖昧是他與伴侶分手，你是唯一絕對支持的人。
曖昧是，你會編一條頸巾送給他，但大家從沒有開始過。
曖昧是，雖然他不是你的情人，但他卻會對你說：「你對我是十分重要的。」
曖昧是，你感冒時有一個會在晚上打電話來，特意提你服藥，叫你蓋好被早點睡的普通朋友。
曖昧是，當你遇到問題解決不了的時候，你第一個便會想起他，而不是你的男/女朋友。
曖昧是，每當他提及他的另一半時，你會萬箭穿心。
曖昧是是為了逃避背叛的罪惡感。
曖昧是甜津津同時又酸溜溜的。往往從未開始，已叫人不安，患得患失。
曖昧是，別人以為你們在攪地下情時，你會沾沾自喜。
曖昧是，別人問你們是否在戀愛中，你會張口結舌。
曖昧是，常常掙扎表不表白。你怕表白之後，你既得不到一個情人，卻又失去了一個知心好友。
曖昧是，見到他時，你會心跳。見不到他時，你會掛念他。
曖昧是，兩個人都會互相猜度。他是不是已經暗示了甚麼？ 我是不是自作多情？
曖昧是，每天大家都會聊ICQ、MSN，間中互傳手機短訊，無規律地偶然約會。
曖昧是，除了情人節之外，在大時大節和生日，大家都會交換禮物。在外地的時候，你總會記得買手信給他。他有時煮了甚麼甜品，也定會預你一份。
曖昧是，在卡拉OK時，你仍會忍不住去點楊千嬅的「有發生過」。陳奕迅的「兄妹」亦曾在你心中繞樑三日，久久不能釋懷。 李克勤的「不知不覺愛上你」當作表白的對白。
曖昧是，你很想多走一步，但又怕會嚇怕了他。你會很小心流露自己的感情，你忍不著不去著緊他，但又怕他知道你著緊。
曖昧是，兩個人沒有承諾過甚麼。但雖然如此，你願意付出的，比有承諾的情侶更多。沒有責任，但你卻很渴望去承擔，不問回報。
曖昧是是一扇門，你可以停留在門外，也可以踏進房子裡面。然而，你不可以停留在門下面。門 – 永遠不是終點站。
曖昧是一瞬間的Disequilibrium。當供求曲線還在心猿意馬地地上下移動時，我們趁機享受如夢初醒之前錯配的歡愉。有天，市場的力量會叫雲消霧散。或退或進，在無形之手掌管下，曖昧最後只會日暮途窮。
曖昧是把最喜歡的鈴聲設給他的號碼﹐每當電話響起﹐你都希望是那獨一無二的鈴聲響起。
曖昧是每當情緒低落時﹐你都會希望依靠在他的懷抱.可是他卻屬于別人的懷抱.曖昧是每當你想念家的味道﹐而他是你第一個想起的人。
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Saturday, June 28, 2008
Recent feelings
Long time no blog. But I am so happy to say that I recently got a "fans" from Shanghai and she told me that she likes my blog so much. Thanks little Helen!
Work has been busy since March. Now, my new staff has come on board and he is quite helpful and diligent. Thanks God for giving me this good candidate. If he can be a bit more aggressive, I will be very happy.
The merger is coming our way. A lot of time was spent on how to separate some components to the other consortium partners and how to integrate the remaining components with the new organization. We have to break up our existing organization into two main organizations. This is a very complicated process and caused somebody to be happy but most people unhappy.
I recently have built up very good friendship with a colleague in CKC. He is just like one of my U-mates and we can talk a lot. I am so happy that I can find someone with similar grading and experience. We can share a lot of information and it helps our work a lot. The colleagues in LH are also good to be friends, but it is really hard to find somebody that I can share and talk to, esp. on work-related stuff... Hope I can make some long-term and good friends in my AA life.
After the merger, I may be demoted to only look after Hong Kong. Also, my staff in HK, CN and TW will be separated from me. I don't know if this will affect my career growth. But I am still looking forward to working with the new team, new boss and new colleagues. Hope I can get something and meet more people. So far, the new CIO looks quite nice. Hope I will have more chances to work closer with him.
I am still looking for volunteer work opportunities. Seems that the new organization will have regular volunteer sessions to help some new immigrants from Mainland. I will try to join and help!
Spiritually, I am quite weak this year. Lots of things happening in my church, to my work and myself. Lots of stress coming to me unconsciously. But so far, God has brought me through the way. I have stomachache from time to time. I need to fix this. I also want to spend more time with my parents. But I am really very very lazy...
Work has been busy since March. Now, my new staff has come on board and he is quite helpful and diligent. Thanks God for giving me this good candidate. If he can be a bit more aggressive, I will be very happy.
The merger is coming our way. A lot of time was spent on how to separate some components to the other consortium partners and how to integrate the remaining components with the new organization. We have to break up our existing organization into two main organizations. This is a very complicated process and caused somebody to be happy but most people unhappy.
I recently have built up very good friendship with a colleague in CKC. He is just like one of my U-mates and we can talk a lot. I am so happy that I can find someone with similar grading and experience. We can share a lot of information and it helps our work a lot. The colleagues in LH are also good to be friends, but it is really hard to find somebody that I can share and talk to, esp. on work-related stuff... Hope I can make some long-term and good friends in my AA life.
After the merger, I may be demoted to only look after Hong Kong. Also, my staff in HK, CN and TW will be separated from me. I don't know if this will affect my career growth. But I am still looking forward to working with the new team, new boss and new colleagues. Hope I can get something and meet more people. So far, the new CIO looks quite nice. Hope I will have more chances to work closer with him.
I am still looking for volunteer work opportunities. Seems that the new organization will have regular volunteer sessions to help some new immigrants from Mainland. I will try to join and help!
Spiritually, I am quite weak this year. Lots of things happening in my church, to my work and myself. Lots of stress coming to me unconsciously. But so far, God has brought me through the way. I have stomachache from time to time. I need to fix this. I also want to spend more time with my parents. But I am really very very lazy...
Sunday, March 23, 2008
Ｌ之終章。最後的２３天
Not sure if you have watched the movie. But I like one of the scripts in the film.
L said to the kid-size N, "No matter how gifted, you cannot change the World ... alone." Good to think about what it means.
Teamwork, leadership, learn to adopt different management styles, magnify others' good things but diminish the bad things, learn from failures, cooperation, form union with people to make 1+1>2 ...
When working as a professional, we learnt to do things smartly and diligently ... alone! But if we work in a team, we have to leverage others' talents to maximize the total effects.
L said to the kid-size N, "No matter how gifted, you cannot change the World ... alone." Good to think about what it means.
Teamwork, leadership, learn to adopt different management styles, magnify others' good things but diminish the bad things, learn from failures, cooperation, form union with people to make 1+1>2 ...
When working as a professional, we learnt to do things smartly and diligently ... alone! But if we work in a team, we have to leverage others' talents to maximize the total effects.
Friday, March 21, 2008
Change of views
In the last class of 2007 Sunday School, I asked each of my students to list out 3 things that they want to achieve in 2008 and I asked them to share one item with the other classmates.
A male student told me that he wants to 過活潑的日子. I think this "wish" is really meaningful! Another female student told me that she wants to get to the top 25% of her class. I myself also listed out 3 things that I want to achieve in year 2008.
Item 1 was: 在工作上有突破
Then earlier this year, I really got the chance to get a promotion in grade. Thanks God! The last time I got a promotion was already in 2000... (despite I changed job in 2005). I was already so delighted. (although the pay rise % was just the same as last year)
After becoming an AVP, I felt that more responsibilities will come to me. Also, I feel more respected. Moreover, many Singapore colleagues shot me emails saying congratulations. They were so kind to me.
Near the end of January, I got a flu. I felt so tired and had to take one day off. However, after two to three weeks, I felt so weak again. This time, the symptoms were: 勁多胃氣,勁肚瀉,氣虛,好攰,不能入睡等. I finally went to see a doctor and he said this is some kind of virus. Not sure if this is 諾沃克病毒 or the previous flu got into my stomach? But this is really a new illness for me... And I could not understand where did I get the virus...
Originally, I gained 2-3 pounds during Chinese New Year but then lost about 6 pounds due to this illness!!
After that terrible illness, my husband went to Beijing to work on the Olympic project. And my work was getting more busy.
Suddenly, two things happened. 1) my team-mate finally got a post in another team and he will be leaving this team, 2) my company suddenly had an incident. And I was suddenly promoted to take over my team-mate as well as to join the incident follow-up committee. These created extra workload and stress to me. But I suddenly realized that the previous illness can be like the Chinese saying 「天將降大任於斯人也必先勞其筋骨餓其體膚」.
Right after taking up the new role, I had to go to Singapore to join a 2-day MT meeting. I was quite stressed before going, as I will meet >20 team-mates in one shot. Also, I have talked to all these people in the previous 2.5 years, but have never met them. So, I was quite nervous!! And I have not been to Singapore for over 20 years (the last time was when I was a kid). But luckily, the colleagues were quite warm and nice to me. And going along with them was not that difficult! Also, during the MT, I finally found some peers that are working on similar stuff as me and we can share the experience.
In fact, this year, I also took up more responsibilities in Church. I was elected the 主日學部長. And I have two 副部長 helping me. They are two big men in their 40's! So, I am also stressed to work with them as they have more life experience than me.
I realized that I need to learn a few new things:
1. Learn to be a new manager
2. Learn how to interview and get the right candidate
3. Learn to lead by following Bible's way
4. Learn to deal with Office Politics in a Christian way
5. Time management
6. Delegation
7. Social skills
8. Further improve English conversational and listening skills
9. Learn to drink but not get drunk
10. Learn to be punctual
May I get the strength and power from God!
A male student told me that he wants to 過活潑的日子. I think this "wish" is really meaningful! Another female student told me that she wants to get to the top 25% of her class. I myself also listed out 3 things that I want to achieve in year 2008.
Item 1 was: 在工作上有突破
Then earlier this year, I really got the chance to get a promotion in grade. Thanks God! The last time I got a promotion was already in 2000... (despite I changed job in 2005). I was already so delighted. (although the pay rise % was just the same as last year)
After becoming an AVP, I felt that more responsibilities will come to me. Also, I feel more respected. Moreover, many Singapore colleagues shot me emails saying congratulations. They were so kind to me.
Near the end of January, I got a flu. I felt so tired and had to take one day off. However, after two to three weeks, I felt so weak again. This time, the symptoms were: 勁多胃氣,勁肚瀉,氣虛,好攰,不能入睡等. I finally went to see a doctor and he said this is some kind of virus. Not sure if this is 諾沃克病毒 or the previous flu got into my stomach? But this is really a new illness for me... And I could not understand where did I get the virus...
Originally, I gained 2-3 pounds during Chinese New Year but then lost about 6 pounds due to this illness!!
After that terrible illness, my husband went to Beijing to work on the Olympic project. And my work was getting more busy.
Suddenly, two things happened. 1) my team-mate finally got a post in another team and he will be leaving this team, 2) my company suddenly had an incident. And I was suddenly promoted to take over my team-mate as well as to join the incident follow-up committee. These created extra workload and stress to me. But I suddenly realized that the previous illness can be like the Chinese saying 「天將降大任於斯人也必先勞其筋骨餓其體膚」.
Right after taking up the new role, I had to go to Singapore to join a 2-day MT meeting. I was quite stressed before going, as I will meet >20 team-mates in one shot. Also, I have talked to all these people in the previous 2.5 years, but have never met them. So, I was quite nervous!! And I have not been to Singapore for over 20 years (the last time was when I was a kid). But luckily, the colleagues were quite warm and nice to me. And going along with them was not that difficult! Also, during the MT, I finally found some peers that are working on similar stuff as me and we can share the experience.
In fact, this year, I also took up more responsibilities in Church. I was elected the 主日學部長. And I have two 副部長 helping me. They are two big men in their 40's! So, I am also stressed to work with them as they have more life experience than me.
I realized that I need to learn a few new things:
1. Learn to be a new manager
2. Learn how to interview and get the right candidate
3. Learn to lead by following Bible's way
4. Learn to deal with Office Politics in a Christian way
5. Time management
6. Delegation
7. Social skills
8. Further improve English conversational and listening skills
9. Learn to drink but not get drunk
10. Learn to be punctual
May I get the strength and power from God!
Thursday, July 19, 2007
現代三字頭人的心態
舊公司的大部份同事都己經成家立室,或者起碼都會有個固定的男/女朋友.
現在公司的同事,唔計過咗四十歲嗰班,大部份的年齡是介乎於28-35吧.
出奇地,他們大部份都無拍緊拖,又無主動去識異性朋友,又好似唔覺佢地會心急要嫁/娶.
他們的餘暇生活都好充實,例如睇戲,食飯,玩水,唱K,碌lane,旅行等.
似乎佢地啲friend都係無拍拖或結婚.
好似好奇咁.
我行埋去我都可以算是早婚??
看著他們,我好像比他們多經歷了幾個步驟:有合適對象,拍拖,結婚,組織家庭等.
究竟是他們無遇到合心水的另一半,還是他們跟本無興趣結婚,又或是男女失衡所導致,甚或他們是"孿"的?
我覺得他們會令香港很快出現一些特別的現象或"商機".
人越來越叻,但好像卻越來越孤單,也好像越來越自私,現在的享樂主義都是以滿足自己為先.
回想約十年前,我們反而會更明白,快樂的來源是來自我們對別人的付出.
等我畢業後再做下義工先!
讓我們三字頭的人都為社會貢獻一點吧!用我們的生命去影響生命!
現在公司的同事,唔計過咗四十歲嗰班,大部份的年齡是介乎於28-35吧.
出奇地,他們大部份都無拍緊拖,又無主動去識異性朋友,又好似唔覺佢地會心急要嫁/娶.
他們的餘暇生活都好充實,例如睇戲,食飯,玩水,唱K,碌lane,旅行等.
似乎佢地啲friend都係無拍拖或結婚.
好似好奇咁.
我行埋去我都可以算是早婚??
看著他們,我好像比他們多經歷了幾個步驟:有合適對象,拍拖,結婚,組織家庭等.
究竟是他們無遇到合心水的另一半,還是他們跟本無興趣結婚,又或是男女失衡所導致,甚或他們是"孿"的?
我覺得他們會令香港很快出現一些特別的現象或"商機".
人越來越叻,但好像卻越來越孤單,也好像越來越自私,現在的享樂主義都是以滿足自己為先.
回想約十年前,我們反而會更明白,快樂的來源是來自我們對別人的付出.
等我畢業後再做下義工先!
讓我們三字頭的人都為社會貢獻一點吧!用我們的生命去影響生命!
Friday, June 01, 2007
沒有XXX的日子第67日 晴
有看溏心風暴的你便知道這標題是什麼.
剛巧老公最近要到外地公幹兩個多月,所以看常在心和程亮這一part特別投入.
其實寫blog的人都像他們一樣,有很多說話想跟別人說,但又不一定想直接對對方講,但又想發表一下意見或抒發一下感情,有時又想一些你渴望他看到你文章的人會剛巧看到你的文章等...
有點神秘,有點浪漫,也有點甜或有點酸.
我本人也很喜歡林峰和鍾嘉欣.林峰唱歌極好聽,聲底可以很厚,很有男人味.樣子有點像我IBM的舊同事加現在的同事的混合體.希望他的星途愉快吧.
記得讀U時也很喜歡寫.plan,差不多日日都有啲update,而同學之間也會互相finger對方,看看別人最近有些什麼感想,或者有無interesting的分享.年輕的你或者不知道我講什麼,唔緊要,我認老.
曾和一個很友好的男同學因為.plan的內容而攪出一些誤會,後來更有點疏遠而繼而變到失去聯絡.這真是有點可惜.不過這也是青春的"激情"吧,大家往往在言論上也不必顧後果,不像現在出了社會做事便要小心慎言,講錯一句說話可以導致嚴重的後果.
後來發覺我老公竟曾和該男同學在某個時期是在同一家中學同一屆讀書呢!世界真細小.
我也聽說過,當年他公司outsource IT給我舊公司,理論上我曾和他做了一段時間的同事,不過當然係完全無聯絡過啦...其實我也不知道他現在用什麼英文名.
Tell u what, my old finger name was: Amejai, 因同學都叫我做Ame仔.
上一份工,很多人叫我Ame姐,現在份工,有較我遲入來的同事叫我A姐!這多年來的變化真大!
唔該pliu不要再叫我A姐,好老!
剛巧老公最近要到外地公幹兩個多月,所以看常在心和程亮這一part特別投入.
其實寫blog的人都像他們一樣,有很多說話想跟別人說,但又不一定想直接對對方講,但又想發表一下意見或抒發一下感情,有時又想一些你渴望他看到你文章的人會剛巧看到你的文章等...
有點神秘,有點浪漫,也有點甜或有點酸.
我本人也很喜歡林峰和鍾嘉欣.林峰唱歌極好聽,聲底可以很厚,很有男人味.樣子有點像我IBM的舊同事加現在的同事的混合體.希望他的星途愉快吧.
記得讀U時也很喜歡寫.plan,差不多日日都有啲update,而同學之間也會互相finger對方,看看別人最近有些什麼感想,或者有無interesting的分享.年輕的你或者不知道我講什麼,唔緊要,我認老.
曾和一個很友好的男同學因為.plan的內容而攪出一些誤會,後來更有點疏遠而繼而變到失去聯絡.這真是有點可惜.不過這也是青春的"激情"吧,大家往往在言論上也不必顧後果,不像現在出了社會做事便要小心慎言,講錯一句說話可以導致嚴重的後果.
後來發覺我老公竟曾和該男同學在某個時期是在同一家中學同一屆讀書呢!世界真細小.
我也聽說過,當年他公司outsource IT給我舊公司,理論上我曾和他做了一段時間的同事,不過當然係完全無聯絡過啦...其實我也不知道他現在用什麼英文名.
Tell u what, my old finger name was: Amejai, 因同學都叫我做Ame仔.
上一份工,很多人叫我Ame姐,現在份工,有較我遲入來的同事叫我A姐!這多年來的變化真大!
唔該pliu不要再叫我A姐,好老!
很多感想
最近可能老公長時間不在港,所以對生活有很多感想.
遇到很多做緊IT但又極不看好IT前景的人.
有些是在公司,有些是在HKU MFin中碰到的.有些是我老公啲friend.
一時間,好像有很多IT人都想像我一般走去讀Finance:
我老公個表弟,我由韓國relocate來港的同事,我office嗰位靚女SecAdmin女同事...
坦白說,有一半人是想,能轉到去I-Bank做工就可以拿高薪水.
但他們究竟對Finance有幾多熱誠便真是很難說.
就算現在讀緊Master的同學,也不是個個都有熱誠.
讀緊最後兩科,我已sense到有很多人在捱日子,一上堂就開始瞓,做project都無晒衝勁.
今日和一位舊placement student食飯,他本是一個怕醜的IT人,但連他也告訴我他除了正職外,現在正在國內攪紅酒和護膚品生意!更和很多人大和什麼什麼要員吃晚宴.這很值得我思考...
不過,我都遇到一些對IT很有熱誠的IT人.也遇到一些對Finance很有熱誠的MFin同學.
舊同學的老公很積極地聯系他人脈內的IT業界朋友,他好像很有心要influence其他人覺得IT是很有商業價值的工業項目,我們也不應自己踐踏自己的行業.不過要知道香港人是習慣了"快",如揾快錢,靠跳槽來升職加薪快,急功近利,見利忘義等.從事IT像要投資很多effort才會有回報,也要付出比別人較多的力量和心血才會得到相同的待遇...很多人都怕做不到四十歲便要被迫轉行,都幾灰呢.
讀Finance都遇多一些很有心學習和研究的同學,更發覺Finance的knowledge不比電腦容易,也不是古老的學問,現在還有很多題目有待研究.如要成功,原來要有很深的數學和統計學根底.為什麼我讀中學的時候從來都無人告訴我原來數學是可以應用在一個這麼practical的科目上呢?以前的老師只令我們知道知識上和理論上的東西,完全局限了我們的潛質...我簡直覺得是有點資源錯配...往往是文科或商科的人才會走去讀Econ或Finance,反而讀理科的人就讀了其他科...難怪外國返來的人在I-Bank會較吃香,起碼人地讀得Finance的就會有較好的Maths/Stat background.
快讀完了,也要開始摸索究竟前路要怎行.也要開始諗如何將所學的知識和閱歷貢獻給教會和社會(這一向是我的心願).求問上帝的心意和計劃是很難的.要有耐性,也要學習等候.現階段我只能說,上帝似乎是要我留在荷銀好好地發展,也要看看這個once-in-a-lifetime 的 M&A project,這應該會是一個汰弱留強和洗牌的大好機會.呃飯食的人很快便會露出馬腳.Smart的人更可考驗自己的信心,和遇強越強.
How is Ame today? Enjoy work, enjoy study, enjoy life!
遇到很多做緊IT但又極不看好IT前景的人.
有些是在公司,有些是在HKU MFin中碰到的.有些是我老公啲friend.
一時間,好像有很多IT人都想像我一般走去讀Finance:
我老公個表弟,我由韓國relocate來港的同事,我office嗰位靚女SecAdmin女同事...
坦白說,有一半人是想,能轉到去I-Bank做工就可以拿高薪水.
但他們究竟對Finance有幾多熱誠便真是很難說.
就算現在讀緊Master的同學,也不是個個都有熱誠.
讀緊最後兩科,我已sense到有很多人在捱日子,一上堂就開始瞓,做project都無晒衝勁.
今日和一位舊placement student食飯,他本是一個怕醜的IT人,但連他也告訴我他除了正職外,現在正在國內攪紅酒和護膚品生意!更和很多人大和什麼什麼要員吃晚宴.這很值得我思考...
不過,我都遇到一些對IT很有熱誠的IT人.也遇到一些對Finance很有熱誠的MFin同學.
舊同學的老公很積極地聯系他人脈內的IT業界朋友,他好像很有心要influence其他人覺得IT是很有商業價值的工業項目,我們也不應自己踐踏自己的行業.不過要知道香港人是習慣了"快",如揾快錢,靠跳槽來升職加薪快,急功近利,見利忘義等.從事IT像要投資很多effort才會有回報,也要付出比別人較多的力量和心血才會得到相同的待遇...很多人都怕做不到四十歲便要被迫轉行,都幾灰呢.
讀Finance都遇多一些很有心學習和研究的同學,更發覺Finance的knowledge不比電腦容易,也不是古老的學問,現在還有很多題目有待研究.如要成功,原來要有很深的數學和統計學根底.為什麼我讀中學的時候從來都無人告訴我原來數學是可以應用在一個這麼practical的科目上呢?以前的老師只令我們知道知識上和理論上的東西,完全局限了我們的潛質...我簡直覺得是有點資源錯配...往往是文科或商科的人才會走去讀Econ或Finance,反而讀理科的人就讀了其他科...難怪外國返來的人在I-Bank會較吃香,起碼人地讀得Finance的就會有較好的Maths/Stat background.
快讀完了,也要開始摸索究竟前路要怎行.也要開始諗如何將所學的知識和閱歷貢獻給教會和社會(這一向是我的心願).求問上帝的心意和計劃是很難的.要有耐性,也要學習等候.現階段我只能說,上帝似乎是要我留在荷銀好好地發展,也要看看這個once-in-a-lifetime 的 M&A project,這應該會是一個汰弱留強和洗牌的大好機會.呃飯食的人很快便會露出馬腳.Smart的人更可考驗自己的信心,和遇強越強.
How is Ame today? Enjoy work, enjoy study, enjoy life!
Thursday, May 24, 2007
感想
有人成立了反聖經的網站,最近亦因中大學生報事件令這個網站"很受歡迎".
看了一點該網站的layout,網主很像聖經中的使徒保羅,現在正處於"掃羅的階段",在逼迫基督徒.
他其實在大前題上做了一個極錯誤的假設,以致他在整個網站內"挑戰"聖經的內容的立論很弱.
他用了很多方法去令人覺得他是一個很懂聖經的人,令人要信服他其他的批評都是有根有據的.
但是他錯誤地假設了基督教是要導人向善和信耶穌是令人生活無憂和完全不再犯罪.
事實上,只是非基督徒話基督教是一個導人向善的"宗教".但對基督徒來說,我們不是在選擇一個宗教,
而我們其實只是確認上帝就是主宰,聖經就是真理. This is afact .
No matter God's characters are difficult to understand or sometimes people
feel that He is so mean, it is something that we have to accept. It is a
fact cannot be changed. 所謂"導人向善"其實只是信了耶穌後的一個possible outcome.
信上帝不代表會一切順利,如果係咁,咪等於當上帝是"黃大仙"?基督徒的生活亦會遇到很多試煉和試探.
看看藝人陳敏兒/廖啟智,劉美娟/張崇德,梁藝玲的遭遇都已經夠震撼了."神未曾應許天色常藍"
基督教的信仰建基於世人都犯了罪,要透過耶穌被釘死在十字架上及我們接受這救恩而得救.
從來無人話過信了就不會再有罪.
該網主在聖經中斷章取義,立論只基於某章某節,完全沒上文下理可言,
就等於在法庭上只憶述某些獨立懷疑相關事件,但無法把它們串起來成為有力證供.
我發了電郵給他:
標題:願主祝福你
自始祖開始,世人都犯了罪,但上帝愛我們每一位,只要信祂便得救
願主的愛有一天臨到你,我怕你會像保羅一樣,變成一個比一般基督徒更有能力的使徒呢!
--
希望用以德報怨的方式去感動他,而不是去說上帝會懲罰他.
看了一點該網站的layout,網主很像聖經中的使徒保羅,現在正處於"掃羅的階段",在逼迫基督徒.
他其實在大前題上做了一個極錯誤的假設,以致他在整個網站內"挑戰"聖經的內容的立論很弱.
他用了很多方法去令人覺得他是一個很懂聖經的人,令人要信服他其他的批評都是有根有據的.
但是他錯誤地假設了基督教是要導人向善和信耶穌是令人生活無憂和完全不再犯罪.
事實上,只是非基督徒話基督教是一個導人向善的"宗教".但對基督徒來說,我們不是在選擇一個宗教,
而我們其實只是確認上帝就是主宰,聖經就是真理. This is a
No matter God's characters are difficult to understand or sometimes people
feel that He is so mean, it is something that we have to accept. It is a
fact cannot be changed. 所謂"導人向善"其實只是信了耶穌後的一個possible outcome.
信上帝不代表會一切順利,如果係咁,咪等於當上帝是"黃大仙"?基督徒的生活亦會遇到很多試煉和試探.
看看藝人陳敏兒/廖啟智,劉美娟/張崇德,梁藝玲的遭遇都已經夠震撼了."神未曾應許天色常藍"
基督教的信仰建基於世人都犯了罪,要透過耶穌被釘死在十字架上及我們接受這救恩而得救.
從來無人話過信了就不會再有罪.
該網主在聖經中斷章取義,立論只基於某章某節,完全沒上文下理可言,
就等於在法庭上只憶述某些獨立懷疑相關事件,但無法把它們串起來成為有力證供.
我發了電郵給他:
標題:願主祝福你
自始祖開始,世人都犯了罪,但上帝愛我們每一位,只要信祂便得救
願主的愛有一天臨到你,我怕你會像保羅一樣,變成一個比一般基督徒更有能力的使徒呢!
--
希望用以德報怨的方式去感動他,而不是去說上帝會懲罰他.
Sunday, November 06, 2005
香港仍有賊
我老公昨天在中央圖書館被人偷了整個書包（Hedgren背囊），內有一部Dell Inspiron 700m手提電腦，一部Sony Clie電子手帳，和兩本CFA Schweser Notes. 個腦只用了三個月，部手帳又有很多我們旅遊的資料，很可憐．如果有有心人能幫忙尋回以上物件，那就好了．不過似乎要有神蹟出現才有可能．．．
Tuesday, January 18, 2005
海嘯後感
海嘯發生了，很多人會問，上帝是否公平？
我想說：
海嘯蓋過壞人，也蓋過好人
海嘯蓋過有信仰的人，也蓋過沒有信仰的人
人生在世匆匆數十年，我們有自由選擇怎樣過生活
若你是海嘯的遇難者，你有機會再選的話，你會怎樣過你的生活？
怎樣的人生才不會有遺憾？
盡力活好每一天吧！
我想說：
海嘯蓋過壞人，也蓋過好人
海嘯蓋過有信仰的人，也蓋過沒有信仰的人
人生在世匆匆數十年，我們有自由選擇怎樣過生活
若你是海嘯的遇難者，你有機會再選的話，你會怎樣過你的生活？
怎樣的人生才不會有遺憾？
盡力活好每一天吧！
Wednesday, September 08, 2004
Wednesday, August 04, 2004
Investment
I suddenly find that I am very interested in learning how to invest. I think it is a very interesting game. However, the risk may be too high if I just want to perform some experiments with real $$. Anyway, hope that I can have more channels to learn about the technique and jargons.
Thursday, July 22, 2004
Before and after
Before getting married:
Mom did all the cooking, washing, cleaning, buying, planning, managing ...
Now:
I have to learn all the above! It is not so different from a maid ...
No wonder people admit that Mom is very great!
Mom did all the cooking, washing, cleaning, buying, planning, managing ...
Now:
I have to learn all the above! It is not so different from a maid ...
No wonder people admit that Mom is very great!
Wednesday, July 21, 2004
something about love
盡力去愛一個你值得愛的人,你便會得到快樂!
Love someone who is worth loving, and you'll get happiness.
Love someone who is worth loving, and you'll get happiness.
today is so rainy
still no chance of getting a Gmail a/c.
my friend told me that he got one from ebay
i don't like this idea...
my friend told me that he got one from ebay
i don't like this idea...
Tuesday, July 20, 2004
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